I need not be a marriage councilor to know what the Bible wants from the married. If you are married, you have locked yourself up for your entire life or to that of your partner. No divorce, no remarriage a separate partner but unity for life. I have always thought that if a partner in marriage commits adultery then the other one is free to divorce the defaulter but not with a Christian marriage that wants to inherit the Kingdom of God one day. Discovering this truth through a book by Michael Thomas Sambo made me fear God even more for the standard He has set for the living.
So many solutions have been provided by the world to a non-workable marriage and some come from well recognized pastors yet they do not support the Godly plan of staying together for life. They would tell you that God permits divorce for an adulterous marriage relationship (Matthew 19:9 – “And I tell you this, whoever divorces his wife and marries someone else commits adultery–unless his wife has been unfaithful” (NIV)) yet that is a lie from the devil.